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Isn’t it fascinating how each of us has not only our own “skill set”, but also interesting personality characteristics that makes us special.  These little gifts from God can be our “power”, but they can also be our achilles heal, right?

I think one of the biggest hindrances to success in business is allowing other people’s opinion to influence how we move forward in our entrepreneurial journey.  Sound familiar?  It’s something I have struggled with for almost 20 years in many different business ventures.  We get so wrapped up in being accepted by others that we allow ourselves to be almost paralyzed by the thoughts of others.

Love him or hate him Todd Falcone “sweats” success.  He may be strong for some people, but I think of him as more direct.  Watch this short video by Todd to see if you can identify with some of what he says, I know that I can!

As most of you know, I have been involved in many different facets of business.  Traditional, Internet Marketing, Networking, heck, I even own a catering company called Wild Hog Catering!  What I have found to be true, is that it’s all about who we align ourselves with.  In my last post, I highlighted Tim Ferriss.  One of the things Tim said was, “It doesn’t matter how many people don’t get what you are doing, it only matters how many do”.  This may seem really simple, but it’s super powerful.

Part of the way we create belief in ourselves and create an ability to shut out those who don’t get us is by aligning ourselves with the right people.  I’m a big fan of Michelle Pescosolido.  I think she is one of those true leaders out there that isn’t about hype, but all about success.  Yesterday I got a very uplifting email from her with this quote.

“It’s about who you align yourself with in a business.  It’s about who you allow
yourself to follow and learn from (be coachable).  This means set all things
aside and follow your mentor that you have committed to and trust.  Trust
that they will give you what you need to succeed no matter how much you
may think your way might be the right way.”

My business partner Rick Herbst and I went out for a walk this morning to clear our heads and get a little exercise.  I brought up the fact of how there is such a fine line between success and failure in business, and how otherwise well intentioned people can really struggle to get ahead while others seem to see success effortlessly.  I think we all realize that virtually all success comes with much effort, and what can seem to be effortless is actually a lot of work.  There are so many keys to being successful, but it all starts with having the desire to succeed, the willingness to let go of what is holding us back, and partnering with the right people to move ahead as a team.

If you are sick and tired of not moving in the direction you want, partner with the right group of people who ARE hitting goals and are helping others move forward.  We stand ready to help you hit the success you so richly deserve.

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I’m sure most of you that follow my blog know that myself and a whole lot of my friends have been engaged in a series of 90 Day Challenges to improve our overall health and fitness.  I think over the past year, I have seen more about true human nature than I actually wanted to, but I have to say it’s been a great learning experience.

Most of us who have chosen to step off the beaten path of mediocrity and chase success can easily relate that we have seen our fair share of “detractors” along the say.  Call them Naysayers, Complainers, Toxic People, or just pain ole Curmudgoens, most of us have seen and heard them all!  We have also seen how people with a dream and the motivation to get ahead have  been derailed by a friend or a family member whose sole intent was to drag that “dreamer” back to mediocrity.

The sad part is that as we know, the whole process has nothing to do with the person trying to get ahead, but is all about the person who isn’t moving.  Our society is flat out scared of someone leaving the pack.  We have a herd mentality.  When one buffalo ventures out of the herd, the others do everything in their power to herd them back in.  It’s a survival instinct in the animal kingdom, and works exactly the same way with humans.

It’s an unfortunate fact.  Those of us that are on our journey of breaking new ground do face so many challenges, but what we never expect is that many of our friends and family won’t cheer us on.  It’s like fighting a 2 front war, but many of us will never give up no matter what.  I’m sure you are one of those people.  What we really need is an education on how to overcome these adversities.

I’m a huge Tim Ferriss fan.  I think this video does a great job of putting all these “Haters” in perspective.

 

 

I mean, let’s face it.  Only about 10-20 percent of people in today’s society are ever going to do anything with their life anyway.  More than anything, I wish that number was 80%, but it just isn’t so.  Most people are going to be reactionary and plod through life complaining and letting someone else determine their future and design their life.  You are reading this blog because you are part of the 20% that actually is or wants to take charge.

I hope you enjoyed Tim’s video, I know it caused me to re-look at how I approach those in my life who don’t add value.  Here is a Mashable reprint of the points Tim makes in his video.  Enjoy and implement today!

 

1. It doesn’t matter how many people don’t get it. What matters is how many people do.

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“It’s critical in social media, as in life, to have a clear objective and not to lose sight of that,” Ferriss says. He argues that if your objective is to do the greatest good for the greatest number of people or to change the world in some small way (be it through a product or service), you only need to pick your first 1,000 fans — and carefully. “As long as you’re accomplishing your objectives, that 1,000 will lead to a cascading effect,” Ferriss explains. “The 10 million that don’t get it don’t matter.”

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2. 10% of people will find a way to take anything personally. Expect it.

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“People are least productive in reactive mode,” Ferriss states, before explaining that if you are expecting resistance and attackers, you can choose your response in advance, as opposed to reacting inappropriately. This, Ferriss says, will only multiply the problem. “Online I see people committing ‘social media suicide’ all the time by one of two ways. Firstly by responding to all criticism, meaning you’re never going to find time to complete important milestones of your own, and by responding to things that don’t warrant a response.” This, says Ferriss, lends more credibility by driving traffic.

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3. “Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity.” (Colin Powell)

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“If you treat everyone the same and respond to everyone by apologizing or agreeing, you’re not going to be recognizing the best performers, and you’re not going to be improving the worst performers,” Ferriss says. “That guarantees you’ll get more behavior you don’t want and less you do.” That doesn’t mean never respond, Ferriss goes on to say, but be “tactical and strategic” when you do.

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4. “If you are really effective at what you do, 95% of the things said about you will be negative.” (Scott Boras)

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“This principle goes hand-in-hand with number two,” Ferriss says. “I actually keep this quote in my wallet because it is a reminder that the best people in almost any field are almost always the people who get the most criticism.” The bigger your impact, explains Ferriss (whose book is a New York Times, WSJ and BusinessWeek bestseller), and the larger the ambition and scale of your project, the more negativity you’ll encounter. Ferriss jokes he has haters “in about 35 languages.”

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5. “If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid.” (Epictetus)

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“Another way to phrase this is through a more recent quote from Elbert Hubbard,” Ferriss says. “‘To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” Ferriss, who holds a Guinness World Record for the most consecutive tango spins, says he has learned to enjoy criticism over the years. Ferriss, using Roman philosophy to expand on his point, says: “Cato, who Seneca believed to be the perfect stoic, practiced this by wearing darker robes than was customary and by wearing no tunic. He expected to be ridiculed and he was, he did this to train himself to only be ashamed of those things that are truly worth being ashamed of. To do anything remotely interesting you need to train yourself to be effective at dealing with, responding to, even enjoying criticism… In fact, I would take the quote a step further and encourage people to actively pursue being thought foolish and stupid.”

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6. “Living well is the best revenge.” (George Herbert)

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“The best way to counter-attack a hater is to make it blatantly obvious that their attack has had no impact on you,” Ferriss advises. “That, and [show] how much fun you’re having!” Ferriss goes on to say that the best revenge is letting haters continue to live with their own resentment and anger, which most of the time has nothing to do with you in particular. “If a vessel contains acid and you pour some on an object, it’s still the vessel that sustains the most damage,” Ferriss says. “Don’t get angry, don’t get even — focus on living well and that will eat at them more than anything you can do.”

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7. Keep calm and carry on.

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The slogan “Keep Calm and Carry On” was originally produced by the British government during the Second World War as a propaganda message to comfort people in the face of Nazi invasion. Ferriss takes the message and applies it to today’s world. “Focus on impact, not approval. If you believe you can change the world, which I hope you do, do what you believe is right and expect resistance and expect attackers,” Ferriss concludes. “Keep calm and carry on!”

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So often in business and in life we get overwhelmed by the incredible amount of things we need to do and the information we need to process.  Life is really a series of small, minute by minute choices we make.  Watch today’s video to hear what leadership expert John C. Maxwell has to say about the choices we make.

I hope you were inspired by today’s Maxwell Minute.  When the world seems to spin all around us, it’s important to feed ourselves daily with good information.

I hope you were inspired by today’s reading, and that you will share it with others so that you may help to inspire them.

To The Success You Deserve!

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